PANDRA'S GRIEF
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         IN LOVING MEMORY OF OUR PRECIOUS SON, PAUL " ANDRE " WILLIAMS, JR.(24), MORGAN ALFRED, JR.(20), & DESHAWN  MCINTYRE, (19).        

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Distracted Driving

         This is my handsome nephew, Pernell Durran Grice and his adorable daughter, Terika, ( 5 ).  Unfortunately he was the driver and only survivor of that horrible car accident that took the lives of three young men. Thank God his injuries were not severe and he eventually made A full recovery. Although he only has A couple of visible scars, his emotional scars are extensive and permanent. For he has to forever bare the burden of knowing that he's ultimately responsible for the death of his favorite cousin" Andre"whom he tried to imitate ever since he started walking. He always tried to walk, talk and dress like him. He even tried to wear his hair like him." Andre" really was his role model. And Morgan and Deshawn were his two very best friends and co - workers. He even had A picture of Deshawn hanging from the mirror in his car. He had proudly shown it to me A few days before the accident. He's constantly tormented with the reality that they're all gone forever, and can't understand why God didn't let them live, and he be the one that died. " I've often heard him say," why didn't God take him instead? Why? " But I comfort myself and him by concluding that God needed A ' master drummer,' and he lovingly choose" Andre." Plus he needed some more skilled musicians, so he sweetly selected Morgan and Deshawn, which were both musicians also. Morgan was A talented drummer and Deshawn was an awesome songster. And since they had completed their assignments on earth, God called them for additional assignments in heaven. Shortly after" Andre's" death, our son Cleavon, who's hearing impaired, told the family that he saw" Andre" beating the drums real fast, but different. He said he saw,A lot of thousands and A whole bunch of thousands of  'angel people' in all white clothes standing around" Andre.' and they were so happy when he beat the drums. And God was looking at" Andre" smiling. He said that's what he saw in his eyes when he was sleep. And I'd rather believe it. And I also believe that Durran couldn't die because God still has A purpose and A plan for his life. And somehow this horrendous tragedy fits into God's plan, although it definitely don't feel like it should. But we must trust God that it will ultimately work out for all of our good. For he really do know what's best for us! Today Durran is one of the drummers for the same church that" Andre" used to play for. And thank God he knows, without a doubt, that I love and support him immensely. We'll weather this storm together, by the Grace of God. But unfortunately, Durran is often misjudged by people, because outwardly he appears as though everything is just fine. But I realize that's  merely A desperate attempt to cover up the real torment that he's experiencing everyday for the rest of his life!  I've personally witnessed his torment on many occasions.  Trust me, there are no winners in this horrific tragedy!  There's seemingly unbearable pain from every direction!  And only God knows why he chose each of us for such A life altering travesty.  But I do know that it has tested the very essence of all of our character, and he has entrusted each of us to ultimately exemplify his true  forgiveness, so that others may realize that we still can do ALL things through Christ that strengthens us!   And to God be the Glory!

                             

                                                                                                                                                                             Nicole and" Andre" were married for four years. Although they were in the process of A divorce, they were still in love, and remained close friends. She was like the daughter I never had. Nicole has since remarried. She said that she's so grateful that God gave her a second chance to have a good husband like Andre. And she finally gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. We still keep in touch, and yes, she's still my daughter. " Be happy Nicole,  you know we'll always love you! "


        

                                                                                              These are very special photos of Cleavon attempting to imitate his big brother" Andre's" pose. He constantly battles with extreme loneliness, because he feels that God took his only brother for no reason. And now he has no brothers and no sisters, and thinks everybody else has their brothers and sisters, and that's not fair. So he say God don't like him no more! Although we keep reassuring him that God still loves him very much, and will always love him no matter what happens. But he still don't really understand. It's difficult for anyone to comprehend why God allowed such A horrific tragedy to happen to four young men that seemingly had so much more good to contribute to this world. But ultimately we must trust that God really does have A purpose and A plan for all our lives, and he has pre - prepared us to reach our divine destinies. Thank God" Andre," Morgan, and Deshawn Gloriously fulfilled their journey!  And one day we'll all, including Cleavon, understand it better, bye & bye!

                        REST IN

           GOD'S SWEET

      ETERNAL PEACE!

  PLEASE SLOW DOWN, AND BE CAREFUL! MILLIONS OF LIVES DEPEND ON IT!
DISTRACTED DRIVING

With virtually every American owning a cellphone, Distracted Driving has become a threat on the nation’s roads. Everyone thinks they can use their cell phone and drive at the same time. But they can't.  Studies say that drivers using cellphones are four times as likely to cause a crash as other drivers.  Distracted Driving caused 5,500 deaths nationwide in 2009, according to U.S. Secretary of Transportation Ray LaHood.  There are three main types of driving distractions: (1) Visual - taking your eyes off the road; (2) Manual - taking your hands off the wheel; (3) Cognitive - taking your mind off what you're doing.  There are many other forms of Distracted Driving: People love to eat in their cars. They can't resist fiddling with the CD player or the radio, chatting with passengers, patting their pets, shaving, or turning around to get after the kids in the back seat while hurtling down the interstate.  Research shows that longer commutes are tempting time- starved Americans to invent ways to spread more tasks over the hours they must spend in their vehicles. Then throw in the fact many drivers apparently don't care that they might be annoying, or even alarming other drivers by applying mascara, drinking hot coffee, reading a novel, or selecting station WMBM, all at the same time.  More than 80% of drivers surveyed identified themselves as multitaskers. Sixty-eight percent eat while driving; 19% are texting or instant messaging, or fixing hair while driving; 14% comfort or discipline their children while behind the wheel; and 8% drive with a pet in their laps. And statistics show that accidents are more likely to occur when there are other passengers in the car with a Distracted Driver. The kids are actually showing off with their friends. while they're drinking, partying, talking on cell phones and texting, etc.  Consequently, they find themselves speeding and weaving in and out of traffic, and as a result, they're just not paying attention, but endangering the lives of themselves and everyone around them. They really feel that they're invincible at the time. The Responsibility Project for the Teen Driving Survey, stated that about a third of teens responded that they are often passengers in a car where another teen driver is text messaging, changing songs on an iPod, speeding or driving with more than three teen passengers in the car. For the most part, teens responded that they rarely, if ever, drive under the influence of alcohol or drugs. The majority, 84%, reported that they would ask a driver to refrain from driving after drinking alcohol; about three quarters would ask friends who had used marijuana or prescription drugs, not to drive. And in turn, nine out of ten teen drivers said they would likely refrain from most of these behaviors if they were asked to stop by a passenger. The survey also revealed that teens aren't quite as outspoken about things they don't consider as distracting as alcohol and drug use. Only about half of teens said they speak up and ask a driver to stop racing other cars, texting or using a cell phone to access the internet while driving; only 18% of teens are likely to ask a driver to stop talking on a cell phone. About a third of the students regarded activities like updating their Facebook page or texting while driving to be distracting. Not surprisingly, girls are more likely than their male counterparts to ask a driver to stop engaging in behavior that could distract them. We ALL should ask ourselves this question; Are we willing to risk killing someone or ourselves because of Distracted Driving?  But sadly, car crashes are the number one killer of teens in the United States, which tragically, instantaneously changes countless lives forever. We ALL should ALWAYS remember that every time we get behind the wheels of our cars, millions of LIVES depend on us ALL being extremely careful. So please DRIVE SAFELY.




           My Dearly Beloved Brother, Rev. Micheal Dean Hunter ( 41 ), Was Tragically Struck And Killed On August 20, 1999, While Attempting To Change His Tire On The Side Of The Road In Eastman, Georgia. The Young Lady That Killed Him Said She Was Distracted, And  Didn't See Him Until It Was Too Late.
                                     PLEASE DRIVE SAFELY!
PLEASE DON'T LET THIS HAPPEN TO ANY OTHER FAMILY!  IT IS ABSOLUTELY BETTER TO BE LATE, THAN TO BE SORRY LATER! SO BE SAFE,  O.K. GOD BLESS YOU!


        REMEMBER, NO TEXTING OR TALKING ON YOUR CELL PHONES WHILE DRIVING!   
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