PANDRA'S GRIEF

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GOD SMILED

THIS WEBSITE IS IN LOVING MEMORY OF OUR PRECIOUS SON, PAUL "ANDRE"WILLIAMS,JR.(24), HIS FRIENDS, MORGAN ALFRED,JR.(20), AND DESHAWN MCINTYRE, (19), MY UNFORGETTABLE FATHER, REV. BOYKIN HUNTER (48), MY DEAR BROTHER, REV. MICHEAL DEAN HUNTER (41), AND MY ADORABLE SISTER AND BEST FRIEND, JACQUELYN HUNTER - KENDRICK. WE'LL NEVER STOP LOVING YOU!

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This page is dedicated to my loving and supportive husband for 35 years, Paul A. Williams, Sr. who is the epitome of an honest God - fearing man. " I Love You Dearly Sweetheart! "

GOD SMILED AT ME

I often wonder where would I be today without God, and my one, out of two million man? That's the phrase I lovingly use sometimes when referring to my beloved husband for 35 years, Paul A. Williams, Sr. ( 58 ). He really is an exceptional husband, and the true essence of A real man. But as I reflect back to when we first started dating, I vividly remember that I foolishly tried to push him away from pursuing me. Thankfully God had predestined us to be together. Although we were associated with the same church organization since childhood, to be honest I never noticed he existed. But fortunately one night after A church service in Miami, Florida, Paul and I started talking. He eventually said," I can't say that I love you now, but I believe I could easily fall in love with you." For some reason the honesty of those words really penetrated to my heart. Basically because I was so familiar with men saying," baby I love you," and we just met each other. So it was refreshing to finally hear A man be honest about his feelings. From that night on we started dating. I remember I was 17, and Paul was 21 years old. At that time I was dealing with some very serious issues that caused me to be in an extremely confused state of mind. So consequently because of my inner conflicts, I desperately tried to push Paul away. I felt that I didn't want him to waste his love on me. But bless God, Paul wouldn't go away! Even though he lived in Miami, and I lived in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, during the two years that we dated, Paul probably missed about five days visiting me. He was so convinced that I was created just for him. There were so many days that he just allowed me to cry like A baby in his arms, while trying to overcome my pain and despair. And sometimes he even cried with me, but still he wouldn't stop coming. I had no idea that God sent me an Angel to rescue me from my inner turmoil. Paul told me several times that he didn't understand why he couldn't give up on me, especially since he knew there were many women that would've gladly accepted his love. But what God has for me, it is for me! Therefore he blessed Paul to be very patient, determined, and so understanding and attentive to my every needs, that eventually he gently, but lovingly pulled me out of that awfully dark place, and into his strong arms of protection. Finally we were married on August 17, 1974, and ever since then I can't imagine being with any other man besides my Paul. He's one of the most caring, trustworthy, loving, and committed men that I know. And everyone that knows him well enough feels the same way. Even my mother, who officially moved in with us after our son died, declares that there's no way I could ask for A better husband than Paul. She adores him and he's crazy about her. He tries to attend to her every desire, if possible. If he even thinks she wants something, ( e.g. Her favorite Butter Pecan frozen yogurt. ), at 2 o' clock in the morning, he'll gladly go to the store and get it for her. And he'll quickly do the same for me also. All his family and mine feels well assured that if they can't depend on no one else, they can always depend on Paul being there for whatever and whenever. He's been that way since day one because that's just his true character.Several times I've heard my nephews tell him that he's their role model because he's the only man that they honestly believe when he say he's never, ever cheated on his wife. And they hope to say the same thing one of these days. Sometimes I hear them teasing him about it, but Paul takes it in stride because he knows they're just having fun. He loves to tell me," honey you're so beautiful! " He sometimes tell me that even when I look my very worst. So one day I asked him, how can you say that I'm beautiful when I'm looking so terrible with hair rollers in my hair, and this big house dress, etc.? He responded saying," honey you're always beautiful to me, and I'm not just talking about your outside beauty, but you're especially beautiful on the inside where it counts the most! " That's why I call Paul my one, out of two million man! And to God be the Glory!

Paul, you gently but lovingly pulled me out of that awfully dark place, and into your strong arms of protection.

DRIVING IN BAD WEATHER

Driving In Bad Weather is a major cause of accidents. When you are driving, particularly on a long trip, make sure to stay tuned to radio reports about weather conditions. If you hear that an ice storm, hurricane, tornado, flood, hail or other severe weather is expected on the route you are taking or at your intended destination, change your travel plans. Whatever reason you have for going where you are going cannot be as important as saving your life. If you are already in an area that is being hit by bad weather, don’t try to drive your way out of it. Seek shelter for both you and your car and wait for the storm to pass. Your fellow drivers may not be driving as carefully as they should, or be inexperienced at Driving In Bad Weather. You will need to slow your speed down, meaning the journey could take much longer, so be prepared. In addition to slowing your speed you need to increase the distance you leave between other cars. This is because in slippery road conditions you will need more time to stop; (as much as 10 times). Another good reason for doing this is that other drivers may slide, and you want to give yourself enough time to react and avoid an accident.