PANDRA'S GRIEF
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FOREVER FAMILY
THIS PAGE IS IN LOVING MEMORY OF MY UNFORGETTABLE FATHER, REV. BOYKIN HUNTER (48), MY DEAR BROTHER, REV. MICHEAL DEAN HUNTER (41), MY ADORABLE SISTER AND BEST FRIEND, JACQUELYN HUNTER - KENDRICK (39), AND OUR PRECIOUS SON, PAUL" ANDRE " WILLIAMS, JR. (24)." OUR LIVES WILL NEVER BE THE SAME WITHOUT YOU! "
FOREVER FAMILY
I've heard the phrase that, time heals all wounds, many times, and I agree that it does. But when it involves grief, for me personally, I prefer to say that, time heals the intensity of my wounds. For I believe that even if I live to be 150 years old, I'll always carry this heartache and have this sacred - void in my soul until I see my love ones again in Glory! I'm convinced that true love transcends time and enters into eternity. Furthermore, I also believe that one of the reasons God divinely gave each of us the gift of memory, is so that when our love ones die, they can still remain alive in our hearts, mind, and soul because of our ' precious memories.' Therefore they'll always be A part of who we are. Nevertheless, I can truly say that time has healed the intensity of my pain. Finally, I've realized that I don't cry as much, and thank God I really can't remember the last time I've actually screamed. So I am progressively getting better! And I've also discovered that the more I reach out to help others in pain or comfort those that needs comforting, the more God transforms my support into A healing agent for my own wounds. And through my pain he has instilled A deep passion toward hurting women. Because when we're faced with heartaches and trials, God is forever present to sustain and strengthen our spirits. Because that which is spirit, is spirit! But he also said, that which is flesh, is flesh! So ultimately God relies upon us, that will, to help sustain and strengthen each other in the flesh. Consequently, that means that when we extend our love and support to someone else, we are allowing him to express his love and concern through us. I particularly remember that during my earlier years of grief, after' Andre's ' death, I would go about my daily routine wondering if anyone could hear my ' silent screams.' Because my grief was so intense, there were many days that I could literally hear myself crying and screaming deep down in the belly of my soul. But I could clearly hear it inside my inner ear, even during the times that I was talking and laughing on the outside. Although it's difficult to explain, but it was very real. A lot of people gladly complimented me on how well I seem to be doing and how good I looked because that apparently made them feel better. But I desperately wanted someone, anyone that understood my pain enough, to acknowledge that they could hear my ' silent screams.' I constantly asked God, why can't anyone hear me screaming? Why? But I'm so grateful for this young sister at our church named, Faye Grice- McCombs, who's shoulder I stood on many times! She has been A solid source of genuine support since day one! Although there are others such as Lavonney Stoney, Katrina Jones, Akilah Styles, and Gail Banks, etc. But Faye has been exceptional! Each year she remembers and acknowledges ' Andre's ' and my birthdays, his death anniversary dates, accident dates, and even all the holidays.She even remembers his burial date! She randomly gives me the most sweetest encouragement cards or sentimental gifts. And it amazes me that they're always done with perfect timing, exactly when I needed it the most! I told Faye that God is going to give her an extra reward for allowing him to use her, to remind me that he remembers, even when others sometimes forgets. To Faye, what she does seems so insignificant. But only God can take our insignificant deeds, and turn them into the most 'significant.' Whereas each time Faye reaches out to me, it feels like God did it himself! Surely to some it may seem so insignificant, but to me it's priceless! So ladies let's extend A hug, A shoulder or A listening ear to someone in need, and I can assure you that you will feel A blossoming of God's love within your own hearts! For it's true, we do need each other to survive! Because we're all A part of God's family! And to God be the Glory!
LADIES, I STOOD ON YOUR SHOULDERS MANY TIMES!
These are photos of my precious and beautiful friend, Faye Grice - McCombs, She's been A solid source of genuine support since day one. God bless you Faye!
And this is my dear friend, Lavonney Stoney ( right side ), and her beautiful family. I finally met someone that smiles more than I do. Since the day of the accident, she just adopted herself into the family. And she truly is A tremendous blessing to all of us, especially me! I love you Stoney!
These are my lovely friends, Gale Banks- Allen and Akilah Styles. They've both extended A strong shoulder on many occasions through my recovery. Thank you so much! I love you! Each time these women above reached out to me, it felt as though God did it himself. So ladies let's extend A hug, A shoulder, or A listening ear to someone in need!
TEEN DRAG RACING
American teenagers like speed and they like to race their cars. Teen Drag Racing is universal: teens in rural and urban areas do it. Some races happen spontaneously; others are planned events with spectators. When a car crash occurs, everyone disappears, making it impossible to determine if the car crash was a result of Teen Drag Racing. About 45% of teen driving fatalities involve speeding, and a recent insurance survey attributes 21% of car crashes to Teen Drag Racing. It is difficult for police to stop Teen Drag Racing because they race at night in unpopulated areas with little police presence. Some jurisdictions like New York are increasing the penalties against Teen Drag Racing, raising it from a misdemeanor to a felony and requiring parents to come to court with their teens. If you suspect your teen is drag racing, there are things you can do. Do not allow your teen to drive at night. Consider buying a “Drive Cam,” a device that fits on your child’s rear view mirror. If your child accelerates suddenly, the device sends you a computer alert. It also films everything that happens in the car. If your teen is determined to be “fast and furious,” you might consider legal racing.
MY FOREVER FAMILY'S' BLAST FROM THE PAST '
